Please help me with my HAIR!!!!!?

It's horribly disgusting and it's never been this way. Ever.

My hair always used to be perfect, maybe even a little too oily, and flat to my head, but other than that, it was perfect.

And now I've ruined it and I don't know what in the world to do. Here's what I've done to it: I got a perm in November. I have dyed it from medium-dark brown with pink highlights to a brassy blonde in March, and from there to a light light blonde with brown highlights in May. This, alone, fried my hair, but I didn't stop there. About a week ago, I bought a home chemical straightening kit. As my hair was going through that, I lost a TON of hair, and I still am every time I brush it or run my fingers through it -- AND it's still kind of curly just from the dryness. It's horribly elastic-y when wet, then as soon as it's dry it's poofy. My friend told me to leave conditioner in for 20 minutes every other day, and not to brush it until it's dry, but I have had no success. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE help me!

Please help me with my HAIR!!!!!?

come on have you read what you wrote?

you have destoyed your hair and knew you were doing it.....

if you don't think about the problem.............which I see a lot of........which is having a compulsion to destroying your hair....( its kind of like alcoholic's or drug addicts....they know what they are doing is killing themselves but they do it anyway...that's what u are doing.......

wrecking your hair....you MUST REALIZE you have the PROBLEM, so that you will stop.....

if you continue as you get older it will be permanently damaged and it will not recover.........

and then you will be on here and there will not be a single answer that will work for you......

Please help me with my HAIR!!!!!?

First off,go to the salon and get all of your split ends trimmed off. Then take some baking soda and water and mix it together n d put on your hair and leave it for a few minutes. This gets rid of the nasty funky product buildup on your hair. The use some appl cider vinegar and some water and put it in a sandwich bag.cut the tip off of the bag,and distribute it throughout your hair. Leave for a good while. Then buy some K-pack Reconstructor and use their whole system for damaged hair. Hold off on heat and try to reduce the use of flat irons,blow dryers,curling irons,etc. If you continue this routine,you will have healthy hair again!! And take prenatal vitamines! Excellent for hair growth and extra sheen and shine!!

Please help me with my HAIR!!!!!?

I've had this same problem! I over dies my hair and straightined it to much and it would just fall out and break off super bad!! My hair stylist told me to buy some Joyco K-pack and it works wonders!! I also like the dove therapy products! I use those and then a hot oil treatment once a week and left it alone for a while and dies it back to my natural color and it's starting to get healthier! I hope this helps!